Sometimes we do a lot many mistakes to land up in one truth and the real one. It might take minutes, months , weeks or years and sometimes a lifetime..
Few things which never mattered me in my teenage or my bachelorhood bothers me now. Few things which i neglected earlier becomes preciously important for me now.
Learning from mistakes and getting anything after pure desire helps us to realise whats stays with us and whats best for us. Sometimes the boring work we do …might mean to us a lot when we get busy and just wish we get a break. And yes ofcourse …when we are busy we forget to get a break…we ignore the small happiness we receive and forget to give he same.
Am not in a philosophical mood actually…just realised..its not late to know something on my own. Parenting is not as easy as we all think , its like we are handling someone , who look up to us to learn many things. WE teach them many things unintentionally ,and they learn those things quickly more than anything they need to learn.
My kids are quite smart enough, they have learnt many things..even without my knowledge ,am blessed to have them as my kids, because sometimes I realise the mistakes in my behaviour when my kids imitate it in front of me and I just get shocked and I tell them not to do so and make sure I don’t repeat it myself too.
Kids become our mirror like image , if we don’t nurture them the best way.