I like strong willed women, but not in my home

A strong woman is always admired..loved and praised only when they are not yours. Most people especially men love independent women, but the moment it turns out to be their wives turn to be independent they are quite skeptical. Only a strong-willed man can be a perfect husband in the case of being around her when she wants to step out of her comfort zone and be independent.
The rest choose to give tons of excuses and enjoy only eulogizing other women.
A woman should always have the right to pursue what she wants to be in life. Sadly even in this era …i see men who are just downgrading them to be a household…they dont even respect how much they do for the home, and family.
Working or not working is her choice like you choose to smoke or not smoke ….never belittle her as she never disrespected your contributions to the home.
Sadly it’s not just men, it’s the women who raise them who should be put responsible because they are the ones who cut her wings and burn their talents to ashes.

Even though we are in a century where the human brain is marvellous…our mind is still in the well, not even trying to search for the light to enter, because we are afraid to break away from the norm.
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Live and let live.

Sreepriya Menon
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I wish I knew…

I wish i knew.
That its ok to be imperfect.
It’s okay to be angry.
It’s okay to fail.
It’s ok to fall ….but get up again.

I wish i knew, that there are no perfect moms.
I wish i knew, that i could fail as a mom..and learn again…
I wish i knew, that i can be vulnerable…
I wish i knew, i could dream.

I wish i knew i could be as messy as i am.
I wish i knew that it was ok to be single…
I wish i knew, i could be unsuccessful…
I wish i knew i could move on even with a heart block.
I wish i knew i could be depressed and not judged.
I wish i knew, i could cry openly.
I wish i knew that i could get angry.
I wish I knew, I could learn from mistakes…
I wish I knew, that I can be beautiful in my way…
I wish i knew it was ok to be fat.
I wish i knew it was ok to be who i am.
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TheChaoticPoetess
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The loner in me

Sometimes i wonder.
Why am i lonely sometimes.
I just sit, wondering
What’s happening around me.
Unable to intercept and react…
Unable to cry and smile.without aching my heart.
Because my world,
Is encapsulated in a world that cannot be seen.
At the tip of my fingers…
And when the world around me,
Is awakened.
I feel left alone…
Because my world is away in slumber…
I just sit,
And wait for the time to run…
To run and fade away.
Until the words arrive…
To soothe my mind. Which is chaos until peace arrives.
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TheChaoticPoetess
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Running away from the bustling city

As the world is,
Bustling away in front of my eyes.
As if there is no time to wait.
I stood there,
Awaiting my memories to accumulate in my mind…
To free me from these shackles of expectations.
To take me back to those moments, which my heart craves for more.
The moments which are imprinted in my soul.
The hustle and bustle of the world around me.. Fails to impress me.
As I began to travel to my past every moment of my life.
Familiarity is what I craved.
But all I was gifted was an unfamiliar world.
Which is promising me something…
Which takes me to take a step away.
Away from what I have been so far.
I shut my eyes,
When waves collide my eyelids.
To calm the storms that rage within me…
Confronting my soul,
I decide that I need to be stronger…
Stronger than I ever expected.
To move ahead…and not move on.
Because that is what I am.
I carry a piece of everything, I am forever…
As I know that, the ones meant for me,
Will never part ways with me.
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TheChaoticPoetess
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Finding her, after She lost her

Most women on getting married lose a piece of her and gradually with days counting she loses herself and becomes a manual guide which contains only data fed by the family into which she has moved into. 
And the guide contains the facts like.

Forget your family…this is your new home.
Forget what you studied, learn to do things in a new way.
Forget what you have been earlier …that doesn’t matter to us.
You wanna go to your home, oh that’s impossible…
You wanna go to your home, you need your husband’s family’s permission.
Always prioritize your husband’s family and not yours.
You are a guest at both your parent’s home and your husband’s home.
You have to ask your husband, even before you step out.
You stay home and take care of your husband’s family.
You can go to work, but I won’t be helping you with any things. Your job depends on how you manage.
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Crap and nonsense fed to the minds like these ruin society.  Where is a healthy relationship here? One has to sacrifice so much for just another person.

Women, if you want to find yourself, be bold, strong and independent. Strangely saving her is the toughest task she has to go through. Be who you are no matter none supports you. This is why a woman has to be independent and strong.
It is hard, but not impossible.


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