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love is trust

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She could see the love in his eyes

she could trust him blindly

she could follow him even he takes the thorny routes

she just followed him

wherever his hands dragged her

she never questioned

she believed that he knew the best

Whenever she was with him

she could only feel him, hear him and nothing else

everything around her seemed vague and void

Her heart knew he was the one who carried her in her eyes and heart

he was the one, whom she loved the most

She wept at the thought of being away from him

Every thought in her mind revolved around him

She was never scared to loose someone because love never tangled her emotions

but now, the thought of being away was like immersing a dagger in her heart

She could resist the pain, but to live with the pain was the hardest.

~~~love at its worst pain~~

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Desperate need to come back

When there is a long gap in anything you have been doing and then stopped doing those , there comes a moment of desperation to do it.

It’s is not just work – but everything.

Past few weeks as I was talking to many women who shared similar thoughts to mine , I understood that we all were thinking alike, the desperation , the need to be something or someone. That’s on everyone’s mind , but to get through that it is quite difficult but not impossible. So never loose heart.

We all have some kind of responsibility in life ,which how much ever we turned down, we will end up doing . If I see my home messy, I will clean ones when am in desperation to clean. (which is hardly ever) . The only thing we need to have is confidence and a belief in yourself.

Never let your depression overshadows your mind . For women who too ka break for child care and another family responsibility, be proud that you have done it and it was a right decision. Never let the thoughts of burden cloud your mind.

It is not easy.

But again for us ,it is not difficult too.

Maybe for few years your life is revolving around the lil ones or your loved ones, that means you are not wasting your life- you are the most important person in their life .Be it a child or an elderly.

For me , my kids are my world and am happy that I devoted my time to them, learning a lot from them.

Be proud moms for you are what you are born to be and you will be what you should be and want to be, give time and have patience.

Anger – leads to total mess

 

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Whenever my lil one , does some mischief and as all mothers does , I try to correct her, but nothing goes well, because she is never ready to listen to me and am never to listen her, and we both get angry and leads to a total mess. 😦 , not my house but my mind.

For me , whenever am angry , I don’t know why my stupid tears run down my eyes ,showing that am so weak , I can’t get angry on the other person. Its like showing off my weakness , and its quite ridiculous . Sometimes , we get angry for silly things ,which is exactly what happens to me all the times . 🙂

Anger is not caused by the words we speak or the actions we do, it depends on the situation the other persons mind is going on too. Basically , to admit something to someone , we better need to check what exactly the other person is thinking and is he/she happy or sad, or upset or already in a bad mood.  🙂

Everyone can get angry , but to be angry for a right reason , right time and knowing how to deal with it , takes enough understanding and patience . Sometimes the reason for anger , will be as simple and easy to handle as a piece of cake, but the state of mind, is also important, when we are in a bad state, even smallest prick with a needle , will be like a stab with sharp knife . 

Anger does not bring you anything other than sadness and loneliness. Its never an answer to all your questions.